Live Stoner Chat Being judged never bothered me till now

[DreadHeadiez]

Hey. So I have been blazing for about 6 years now. I'm 22 with a fiancé and little girl who's gonna be 1 next month.

Things is when I was 16-20 I never had a care about people knowing I blaze. Now however I feel like that I'm older people judge a lot lot more. I get nervous and lose track of my sentences. Idk but I just hate people trying to slow themselves down for me or see me as unapproachable.

It's almost like I have to turn off my love and happiness when I'm stoned or else people will judge me for being 'to happy' idk I just hate it I need to get over it and just let my love shine. Any advice ? When I try and turn off my emotions when stoned I just get irritable and antisocial .

 

[DreadHeadiez]

I'm the type that would talk with a smile ear to ear... But that's just me...

 

[Mossy]

Welcome to our Home @DivineSpirit ..my Bud makes me Smile and Love the World..

Just let your Love Shine..we'll Share it with you..

 

[DreadHeadiez]

Positive post friend thanks. I think over the last year I've been letting people get me down when I was above all that. I gotta stay above it.

 

[Mossy]

Yeah..unfortunately you have to get to my age to realise that Life is about You..not what other people Think about you.

 

[bad dragon bzzz]

plenty worse things to be judged on than "to happy"
advice...

followed by song

 

[MissUniverse]

I was like you. I didn't want people to know and still am not a big fan of letting my coworkers know. Its like you don't go up to someone and say "I like to drink how about you?" Same goes for telling people you toke. If it comes up and you trust the person then sure, but make sure you trust them. Ive been lucky with my current job that they are allowing me to test hot for pot as long as I don't have other drugs in my system without a prescription. I was told the company is looking to change policy and wants to see how new employees with medical necessity for cannabis fair in the workplace before making it corporate wide. So far its apparently a success. And my employer said themselves they'd rather me test hot for that than opiates, and I had to agree to not be high at work(which I a duh for me).
So times are changing. More people take a toke than you would think. Some are just acting so they won't get noticed

 

[Smorf]

Anyone who thinks you are too happy and gives you a hard time about it is probably not happy with themselves and/or they just want to spread negative vibes because they dont like seeing other people happy when they are not.
you just have to filter all those toxic people out of your life

 

[iampepe]

Positive post friend thanks. I think over the last year I've been letting people get me down when I was above all that. I gotta stay above it.

Welcome to AFN!

 

[wwwillie]

Don't worry, be happy.