Ordinary people with just a tad of manner would not have made a joke out of it- they would have offered me or anyone in need (if they had class) their service or goods, food or "money". This clearly shows that the previous speaker did not have such in he´s DNA. Where i came from - we shared, but that seems uncommon for some people & if you feel offensive bcz of that, that´s on your side and not something you ca get upset about and feel anything about as it´s just the truth, yet some people will get offended as they do not understand what i´m really typing or trying to write to make YOU understand, do you understand?