Live Stoner Chat Should I flog him

[hecno]

you don't know but I spent a number of years running pubs and pro fishing , MY SON #2 - 21 years of age . He doe's not help at all with the growing , even after I said he can use every thing I have and would give him the seeds , Now would you not think -- Hell yarr dad , NO he is to bone lazy . So this is where the flogging comes in . After over 12 months of giving him smoke --- He keeps stealing mine and nipping buds of my plants -- oh yerr Dad won't know -- , , these boys of mine smoke bush weed and Know I don't I only smoke what I grow or as good , so when I am low I know when more is ready . Number 2 son keeps taking my smoke as if it is ok when he knows I am low on stock , I have all my family at home and believe in fucking trust trust . I have now out a lock on my chill out room and grow room , One disappointed Dad .


Sorry for swearing
I think I will still flog him .
or maybe this .

 

[farmergreen007]

Looks to me like to results say a good flogging is in order, I would lock up my stuff and tell him if he wants to smoke he is gonna have to buy it or grow it himself.

 

[bad dragon bzzz]

you can led a horse to water but you cant make it drink.
will a slapped arse help ? something tells me not.
good luck

 

[epenguin]

Tell him eP said Heck NO!....Not Heck help yourself.....the feckless lazy good for nothing beautiful sons of yours.

If they want more bud, tell 'em to ask my permission first.......you know where I am....eP.

 

[Feenix]

The way the world is shaping, families need to tighten up not spread apart. Get him a tent and a spot in the back yard. Let him earn his way back inside.

Edit: Oh yeah, it is winter. Throw in a blanket. Wait, Aren't you down under? Sorry, skip the blanket.

 

[Dr Fluff]

This story is all to familiar to me, spouses and siblings who think it just grows on trees and so what's the problem if I help myself to a bit.

The problem is as we all know, growing takes time, effort, knowledge and money.

That electricity wheel whizzing around is never considered let alone the cost of nutes ,pots ,soil,meters,seeds,tents,lights the list goes on as we are all well aware of.

Lock it up the room where you grow, the box where you keep your stash. I am generous with my weed but there is a limit to my generosity, when the piss gets taken then the weed runs out.

If my Dad was a toker and he offered to show me how and let me use his gear to do it , I would have jumped at it.

Otherwise why no try bud for chores and get the feckless arse doing something for you.

A flogging ....? I don't think so. I would use the carrot rather than the stick...just make it unavailable and if he wants to buy crap weed let him and hope he gets a headache from it.

Trust is earned just like respect is.Once he has learned to respect you and your weed then maybe you can start to trust him, until then the shop is closed until further notice.

Do make sure you ocassionally share some of your awesome weed in a spliff just to remind him what he is missing and that your still willing to help him grow his own, the rest is up to him.

 

[growgrrl75]

I have a similar situation. 21 year old lives at home w me). I put a load of money into buying my own equipment and have a small tent on the go.
Now we both smoke. I didn't allow it until he turned 18, but he was at it anyway.
Every morning I go check the girls (3 in bloom) and I'm amazed at them, they can make me happy in January!
He doesn't help with anything, I offered the same deal to him-- Have a spare LED so he dosent need much,. So he can learn something and not be toking on the PS4 all day.
Nope. Hates helping me carry them from the bathroom to the tent after watering, last time he did it he broke a branch on my 3footer and I know it was a mistake but you can't be careless around them.
What you need is the locks and the keys attached to your person. That is gunna be my solution.
My son only smokes 'primo' weed. I prefer decent, like yourself, but i'd smoke stuff my son wouldn't.
At 21 I had a baby and was in college, and a single mum to boot. No offence to any young 'uns, but some of Generation Y are unreal in how they expect to get things handed to them.

 

[hecno]

Well , problem sorted - 3 black eyes and a broken arm , Nar just kidding , What I did was tax his stash [ yuk weed- did not smoke ] saved it up then when he was out I sold it to him after a while I told him , boy did he crack up , Now this is the good part , He said to me , bloody Hell dad you sold me my own weed . Yep son I did , makes ya mad when ya get ripped off ay , problem no more .

 

[growgrrl75]

Nice one mate, you're giving me ideas. That gave me a good laugh