The only reason I'm saying this is because it's my opinion not to bottle things up. You might not have meant it that way bro, but I actually found this quite offensive. You've asked for opinions or help from others.
What you've insinuated here is that ever single other person who took the time to reply to the thread is talking nonsense.
If you want to focus on your little ones then just do it, it seems like you've already made up your mind. Again, I'm hoping you didn't realise exactly what you were saying or just chose the wrong words. Regardless, just so it's clear I'm not having a go or trying cause an issue, but I did feel compelled to say something bro.