A4's Only Organic Thread

[A4]

I agree Trap but it is not like I am dealing with young adults here. Her sister is 51, she should know better. In my experience it is difficult for a woman to deal rationally with a situation when emotions are involved.

Honestly I am considering divorce, as I have told me wife if I can't trust her then there is no reason for me to be with her. I handled the argument terribly but I never resorted to violence against her or threats of violence. I did do some things in hindsight that I am not proud of but nothing that would justify police intervention. It is what it is.

 

[Trapper]

...In my experience it is difficult for a woman to deal rationally with a situation when emotions are involved.

I hate to sound misogynistic but I agree. Whatever ammo is lying around will get used. Women are just more emotional creatures...
Or, more accurately, ACT upon emotion more readily.

I'm sorry you're considering divorce and I don't know the issues you and your wife are going through, but I would say that IF you
both want to save it, a ground rule needs to be set around the subject. The sister needs to know that she would, ultimately, be hurting
your wife by taking her husband away from her. It's like dropping a nuke to deal with a mouse problem...overkill.

 

[A4]

It's like dropping a nuke to deal with a mouse problem...overkill.

I understand your point of view but differ in the severity. Of all things important to me in dealing with grow ops, whether with partners, spouses, relatives, whomever is trust. If I can't trust someone to keep their mouth shut then my life is in danger and I mean that with absolute seriousness. Freedom=Life. I am still quite emotional myself, which is why I haven't made any decisions, but am considering options. The one option I don't have is to grow. And that sucks.

 

[Ronin]

Sorry to hear about your drama A4.:Sharing One:
I'd recommend a move to Colorado.
You may be able to find a lady to grow with out here.
That and there's no threat to grow ops here.
Sending some balance :Ohmmm.......:your way.
I hope everything works out well for you.

 

[Mossy]

:karma Cloud:Anti-drama karma sent A4....:hug:..Gutted for you.

 

[pop22]

To answer all the PMs in one place. I had a serious threat in the early morning last week. At the time, I estimated I had about 15-30 minutes to get everything out and didn't have time to move to a backup location which had been arranged previously. I won't go in to details but in the few moments I had to make a decision I set a bonfire out back of my house and moved everything to the bonfire except equipment that wouldn't burn. Plants, clones, bud, tinctures, oils, containers, everything. All burned. It was a devastating loss but nothing compared to the loss of my freedom.

As the old saying goes, three can keep a secret if two are dead. My wife had told her sister some time ago, who both smoke themselves I might add, that we were growing. Myself and my wife got into an argument a few days ago while she was on the phone with her sister and her sister threatened to call the police to my location. Luckily she never called them but, to me, a threat is just as serious as making the call.

So, with everything cleaned out I am in the process of doing a refurb of the room and contemplating my course of action moving forward. I am still pretty emotional about the entire thing. Loosing all the bud doesn't bother me so much but not being able to grow at the moment is heart breaking considering it was my one hobby in life that helped me cope with some mental disorders I deal with. So for now, looks like it is back to the meds.

That is the situation. I will be around to help anyone out that needs it and answer questions but until I can determine what to do about everything my wife's sister put me through I cannot consider growing.

You might want to point out to her that that she'll send her sister ( your wife ) to jail too if she runs her mouth. She smokes and she lets you grow, that makes her an accomplice.

 

[Trapper]

Ronin has it for the win.

 

[ThaGreenBandit]

I'm hurting for you, Guru. Shit like that makes me so damn angry! I hope only the best for you, brother. That shit your wife's sister pulled was gutless and immature, and I hope it comes back, somehow, to bite her in the ass. This news just fucked up my day, bro. I can't begin to imagine how you feel.

 

[justintrudeau]

Damn! That is one horrible post! She should be subject to the same fate as ur buds and the rest of ur meds! IMO!! I'm normally the peacefull turn the other cheeck guy but no way no how in this case! And I totally understand the lenghts you went to in order to protect yourself! Good luck to you going forward my friend and karma will take care of the creature in law!
Cheers!
Pissed off JT!!

 

[pop22]

I'm hurting for you, Guru. Shit like that makes me so damn angry! I hope only the best for you, brother. That shit your wife's sister pulled was gutless and immature, and I hope it comes back, somehow, to bite her in the ass. This news just fucked up my day, bro. I can't begin to imagine how you feel.

Want to hear a good one? My ex one time called the bomb squad because I had a totally non-functional ( and couldn't be MADE functional ) hand grenade a friend had given me......... She told them she was afraid I blow her up! I told her she wasn't worth it......