they both said the ph runoff is not a valuable number.
When you poured 6.5 in and got 5.8 out, according to the formula: you have 5.1 soil. The only reason I can think not to trust it is that you apparently use a color-matching ph kit(?). But, with the problem you're having it sounds like the problem is in that direction.
If the nutrients are ph buffered, that could have helped hold the ph in an acceptable range (until now). I had a similar problem. GH Flora Series seemed to hide a problem I had for my first two grows. I switched nutes and assumed everything was fine (because it always had been). At about 55-60 days (of a strain I normally harvest at 100 days) I started to have the usual calmag deficiency. Tested my runoff and it indicated soil ph 5.0'ish. Coincidentally I had an Accurate 8 soil probe on the way, and it confirmed the problem (perhaps showing it to be in the 4s). I think it was Muddy who suggested that the buffered nature of GH Flora Series compensated for a problem that existed before. (Might have been the hydro store guy, or at least that guy confirmed the logic.).
I suggest you
buy a ph meter. (<<link) That one is $8 US with free shipping. You wouldn't think it to be good at that price, but
myself and others have found it to be reliable. (<<link).
You asked if flushing is supposed to be good for them. Not necessarily. It's a stress. If the ph problem was due to salt buildup, the stress would be worth the stress of leaving the salt there. Question: During the last 5 weeks, what amount of runoff did you get when watering? If it was 20% or more, that should have helped avoid salt build up. If you didn't provide enough water to get much runoff (each watering), it's possible the problem is salt and flushing helped.
If flushing helped it may take awhile to see improvement. If it's a ph problem not due to salt (as mine was) you'll need to do other things like dolomite lime and maybe even
cautious use of hydrated lime. In the meantime, the best thing you can do is foliar feed. When I had my problem I kept my plant alive for 2-3 weeks via foliar feeding.
I did initially sprayed with the following in a pint spray bottle:
1/2 tsp Epsom salt
3/4 tsp AK Fish emulsion
3/4 tsp AK kelp
1 drop SuperThrive
Next day:
1/4 tsp Epsom
1/2 tsp AK Fish
1/2 tsp AK Kelp
1/8 tsp Grow More Sea Grow flower/bloom nute (nutrient I was/am feeding through soil at 1 tsp/gal).
Next day:
1/4 tsp Epsom
1/8 tsp GM SG bloom nute
1/2 tsp AK Kelp
Next day:
1/3 tsp Epsom
1/3 tsp GM SG bloom nute
1/2 tsp AK Kelp
I mixed things up a little, reduced percentages, to allow for other things, etc. because I was shooting in the dark. I reproduce the details above just so you can get an idea of the range of strengths and mixes you can do.
Warnings:
1. I live in a dry environment and wasn't worried much about bud rot. The more humid your environment, the more cautious you want to be. Maybe use a fan to accelerate the drying. Maybe keep the don't drench the foliage. Maybe do it only once.
2. Protect the plant from strong light while the leaves are wet. They can burn.
3. You can use a "surfactant" or wetting agent to help the water spread and stick instead of bead and drop off. It's not required. I didn't use it. But, if you can obtain it, it helps.
The problem you face is that it will take awhile until you can water/feed again and check your runoff. If you still have a soil ph problem, you're going to have to foliar feed until it's corrected. And, you may have to take drastic steps to correct it. Hopefully it was a salt problem and you're already on the road to recovery. You have to weigh the risk of bud rot and decide whether to foliar feed while waiting to find out versus the risk that the problem isn't fixed and you're wasting valuable time. (An Accurate 8 soil probe helps in this regard. You don't have to wait to see runoff.).
If you continue to have a ph problem I can share with you what I did.
EDIT: I meant to say that my use of AK Fish was because, like you, I thought it might be an N deficiency. I was trying to cover all the bases. A bit of risk that the AK Fish will introduce a foul odor to your buds. I don't smell anything now, 3 weeks after using it. (I'm still 2 weeks from harvest. Just starting cleanse now.). But, wanted to warn you.
Some people foliar feed household ammonia for N. I've seen references to 1 cup (48 tsp) per 20 gallons water. That's 2.5 tsp / gal. I've not used this so I encourage you to do your own google searches and calculations.