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[blessedinwashington]

Grey Bear speaks truth! I was thinking the same thing man. I never had that problem, but I have only been growing
as a old single guy. I wasn't growing when I was married to all those different hotties. I do wish I would have worked harder
on a couple of them, and I wish I hadn't worked so hard on the others.

So, as I give input to a young guy, pick your fights man. Having your lady just give up and feel defeated is no way to make that marriage stronger.

Or not. It's your journey man.

I am glad you got things settled for now, but that statement is very telling.
If she feels like the two of you are vying to win rather than working through an issue together, it will come back to bite you in a big way.
My advise would be to listen to hear concerns, express your needs and ask for her suggestions.
And as long as you are growing and she has concerns, do your best to make her feel that you share those concerns equally.

I am paying the price for poor communication in my own marriage. Communicating well may not have brought a different outcome, but I would feel better about it.

 

[Dark Matter]

Can I just say that she was not bullied or talked down too about this. The on the ropes comment was for a laugh, trust me if she didn't want me doing this I wouldn't be. We had a good chat and decided to go with us growing.

Anyways.. My tent... Never had one so need a few comments on size....60x60x120 or 1.2x1.2x2 80x80x1.2 ?
Help... Lol

 

[astronomy420a]

i would still get a mistress for backup
you can keep her in the garage

 

[Dark Matter]

Any ideas on the,tent question dirty knob? Lol

 

[astronomy420a]

yes! get the biggest one you can afford and fit in the space you have. I started with one tent and it was alway's cramped, so I bought a second tent, now that one is alway's cramped as well

 

[Dark Matter]

Which of those sizes would be best for 2 plants at a,time. I'm limited in my grow space

 

[astronomy420a]

sorry I cant convert to metric in my head, so my two tent's are 40inch's square and 80 inch;'s tall good for three auto's, you can squeeze one more in. if your limited in space, the smaller of the two should be adequate.

 

[Dark Matter]

Thank you, well I'm gonna place an order before my wonderful mrs changes her,mind.

 

[astronomy420a]

love my maine chickadee'sin winter it's 25 below zero f. and sitting on a branch outside my window and there is a chickadeeand human's think there tough.

 

[jackmc]

My wife was pissed when I told her I was growing. I convinced her it saves money. I'd make a list of pros and cons. See if you can logic her into submission. Good luck with that seasick.