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What is so valuable about AFN is that we are proponents of safe cannabis use for medical and relaxation purposes. Overriding this is our near obsession with growing that perfect specimen.

So, we are a community from all over the world. And our forums reflect much more than just canna discussions. We are holistic with the center being our mutual understanding of cannabis as a tool-of-sorts. The site also provides all of us with a sense of community and much needed social interaction. It is an important site to so many. When the site goes down many are without a refuge and a home away from home.

We talk about everything under the sun, excepting a few highly volatile topics that one ought to even avoid, at times, in social circumstances.

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AFN members have all kinds of pets. I have read about exotic reptiles, snakes, and primates from all over. Of course, it is mostly dogs and cats.

As is the case some of our animal buddies leave us, under all kinds of circumstances. We have had many members grieving over a loss.


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I am one who had a shocking loss of a pet--recently. In the eighties and nineties I had a sweet female Airedale. I had to leave the city to relocate and she was becoming older and went a few months after I departed. I spent most of my time with her because I had a flexible business and she rode shotgun.


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Not all losses are the same with a pet. We share similar feelings but they might be tempered here and there or it was the result of a long illness, etc.

I was given the honor of taking care of a very special dog. All dogs are special. This one was something else--like a unique phenotype. I knew the dog as a pup. And then had her for three years; the last of which was as an adopted owner--an uncle of sorts.

This one, due to so many less than positive circumstances over the past few years, has really hit me. Hit me much harder than the loss of my own pet.

I don't want to dwell on details--at this time.

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I thought those who have made headway in overcoming their loss are now able to discuss what helped themselves etc.

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There are regular support groups for this sort of topic. I just looked at a few comments and many people have a difficult time.

I did like this link as an overview. http://www.cvm.ncsu.edu/vhc/pet_loss.html


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I realize this topic may not fly. It is a difficult one. If so, I will try to introduce a better thread.


Thanks to all who care to comment.
 
I agree 100%. Many (as well as I ) have very difficult times when it comes to that truly special animal in our lives.For me it was a very beautiful cat that had to be put down due to having feline Leukemia.The hardest part really was the fact that I was in the Hospital for almost a month with my Lesion and MS body shut-down and didnt even know it till well after the fact.The doctors said to not tell me due to stress that could have caused serious issues with my Lesion n such.But the fact that I didnt get to hold him or say goodbye as he passed just shredded me to no end.Thank god for cannabis.I feel without that it would have hit me harder than I would have been able to deal with.He was my TRUEST friend on earth.Im pretty much a hermit and he was everything to me as many of our pets our to many others too.I personally feel this is a great Thread to be honest.Who dont love a pet or an animal(s) at some point in their lives.
 
Thanks eye for contributing to this thread.

We may see more interest. As you know, this is a difficult subject for most of us to discuss.

Cheers. Must be nice to have a real mountain off in the distance.
 
This is a great thread CGSmithiano, I completely agree with what you said about this forum - truly a home away from home for so many of us and the fact that we can discuss any number of topics with a good mentality and support is what sets us apart from the rest.
Ever since I was a young boy animals have shared a special part of my life, I loved creatures all shapes and sizes. To this day I still do, but I think as you get older you are more aware of certain dangers, like - actually, skateboarding could break my legs, or - maybe trying to capture a wild sewer rat as a pet wont be like having a domesticated rat from the pet shop. So now I hold certain reservations about creatures that can bite me..never bothered me before but something about hamsters and small critters..I just don't trust them anymore xD I think i had a total of 6 rats over my younger years, they would just perch on my shoulder and wrap their tail around my neck to stay stable whenever I walked around..awesome.
Cats are my next topic..hope you don't mind me rambling on! I love cats, no way around it. They're cute curious and cuddly and I genuinely believe if you can be the only one to socialise with a kitten for the first few weeks of it's life and having it live in your room will create a bond beyond belief. I've had the opportunity to do this twice in my life and both cats were so close to me it was crazy, genuine friends as stupid as that sounds to some people. Unfortunately they were both taken before their time which really does touch a sore spot when I think/talk about it.
And the final chapter, dogs. From the moment I was in this world my family has had a black labrador as the family dog. They're the first dogs I came into contact with and will be the only dogs I buy (labradors that is, might get a golden pup at some point). The second of these labs still lives with my parents but either this week or next will be the day he goes to sleep, it's really sad to see any dog get old, especially one you've had in your life for so many years. He was a great (badly trained) companion for me as a teenager and now that I'm older I can tell that he has helped my Mum through a lot as well. Very tough time right now, nobody wants to see him go.
I am grown now and I have my own dog, yes another black lab that lives with me and he's amazing. I wasn't intending on getting a dog so soon, paying the bills and rent was enough to worry about. Then I saw an ad saying a puppy desperately needed a new home and stupidly went to the person's house to meet the pup. Of course I took him home the same day, he was 5 months old. He's now coming up to 2.5 years old and he's the best trained lab I've had for sure but I think that's because I'm now old enough to know how to train a dog properly. Knowing that he's gonna be in my life for some many years to come leaves me with no idea how I'm gonna cope when it's time to say goodbye, makes me feel horrible just saying that on here! Every day this dog and most others just have love for you 100% of the time, all they want to do is please you and be your best friend - how could anybody not like that?
Animals are often overlooked by most, and I genuinely believe those people are missing out. Open your heart to a new pet, he/she may just surprise you..
Hope you enjoyed my early afternoon ramblings!
 
Oh boy....
Where to start?

Phil, a dog. My first pet away from the parental household. An amazing beast 110lbs of chocolate Labrador. He was my dog, the coolest on four legs. He had some crazy quirks too. He loved to "sing" to the theme of Mash. Labs do not howl like a hound so it was a pretty odd sound he would make. When it came on the TV, he would come running at sit in front of the set and sing. He also liked to come up behind you and stick his head between your legs and look up at you. Sometimes a bit too roughly!
One time when he was around 8 after driving for 9 hours on Christmas Eve, after we had gone to bed he started acting strangely. I found an emergency animal clinic at 2:00 am. He had a gastric torsion and needed emergency surgery. $1,500.00 or he will die. Spent my then life savings that night. They said it went ok but dogs his size usually only lived a few years after something like this. I am happy to say he lived to almost 15.
One of my proudest and saddest moments was when the time came to put him down. The vet said I should not be in the room because it was emotionally hard. I was having none of that. He was my companion, confidant, best friend, who loved me utterly and completely. I wanted to be the last thing he felt, saw, and heard. So I hugged him and sang the Mash theme while I watched the light fade from his eyes.
So long my friend I think of you often even though I said goodbye 18 years ago.

Hey! Who's peeling onions? Damn it!
 
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