@Turd Ferguson Welcome to AFN. To get someone’s attention put the at-mark @ in front of their AFN name like I did for you.
@archie gemmill will be tagging you with some important AFN information.
Over the past 4 years I have grown from seed from many breeders including some I bred. Like Forrest Gump would say "Seeds are like a box of chocolates you just never now what you will get". One constant for me has been they have all taken longer than the breeders estimate. I grew some Wild Thailand that went 5 weeks over but oh she is worth it.
For me that is part of the fun but it can be very troublesome in a small space. Plants grow different heights and width making lights hard to place. I grow hydro with one reservoir for 6 plants and sometimes you get the odd duck that needs more or less of some nutrient. Anyhow you get the idea.
I medicate for pain and do not smoke. Most of my consumption is homemade chocolates or vape oil. So I do not have a lot of recommendations for anxiety.
@Root has a lot of experience in the medical section and may have some good strains for you to try
Good luck and kudos for growing to help your Daughter.