Live Stoner Chat Is there such a thing as being to nice

[Mr Piggy]

i too am a nice person usuallt... but mess with my friends or family and meet my dark side...

i too, can sense when someone is being genuinely nice... and when they have a hidden agenda.

+1

= :no::no::no:

 

[swampman]

:thumbs:...this thread has damn near made swamp chime his ass off ...i was just lighting a bowl of my swamp hay ....i seem to think it's just the climate for swamp flavored bud ....

Mean people suck ....but this is how swamp is
Piss me once ...shit I'll forget and accept apology
Damn phone and sticking icons only at beginning ....
Back to story piss me 2wice well we have to say it's my fault
Leta not pjss swamp off to bad ...cause we got critters out here bigger then a man ...and love to eat assholes .....
Haha ...i could never do that ...but yes alot of times people to nice are usually hiding summn or masterminding a scam imop.....
Swamps always nice and gives eticate to the human being until ya try da funny stuff

As for my kids well we all know the protection of that ...my baby girl ever gets touched or demonized by the ultimate tradgedy women face ....poor guy would not enjoy the rest of his life nor would his family ....i could be that kinda mercenary!!!!

So lets stay hi chilled and nice as possible ....Happy day fellas ...im smoking Hay all day ....literally

 

[MrN]

+1

= :no::no::no:

:thumbs:..:thumbs:.....:smokebuds:


don't mess with my kin,friends,ends(money)and we're kool!!..:thumbs:..:group:

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[Musturd]

As a manager of some sometimes hard to deal with people, at times I have to be an asshole, A few dont take me seriously. they no longer work there.

 

[Stunted]

As a manager of some sometimes hard to deal with people, at times I have to be an asshole, A few dont take me seriously. they no longer work there.

Stunted was once a Technical Support manager for a big ass software company, if your problem ended up on Stunted's desk then the reply was sure to impress......for instance:

His problem;

Problem : Your software 3.0 has used up 10 DVDs with out a good copy. I was using the older version and no problem. Please send a check to repaid my for the 10 disks. Twenty US dollars will do it.

My reply;

Shit in = Shit out, software cannot make up for your rubbish media.

See like I said, I am always nice!
:group:

Stunted Help
:smokebuds:

 

[low_and_slow]

There's a guy in another office at my work that is abusively nice to me...took me out for lunch for no reason, sent me a Christmas card literally for no reason, AND sent me an invite to a big event that he's hosting, again, we only ever meet up maybe once a week in passing on the way to the bathroom (offices on each floor share a common men's room). I've never suspected he was out to "get" anything from me, and I'm 100% NOT a homophobe, but I can't help but wonder why he doesn't wear a wedding ring...and why his hair is always perfect...and why he wears floral print shirts to work...

Not that it really bothers me, I just feel creeped out whenever I'm around him. I wish that weren't the case, I just get that "vibe" so hard that it makes it difficult for me to be genuinely nice in return.

 

[Grey Bear]

I don't think you can be too nice.
Someone may be pretending to be nice, but that is deceit, not being excessively nice.
I try to be nice, because I believe it to be the best thing for me and for others. It is best for others because it helps them, which is good for me because I enjoy seeing others do well, which in turn motivates me to be nice to others......
I often fail to be as nice as I would like to be, I don't beat myself up for the failure, I just try to to do better.

All that said, I have learned over the years that I have been wrong much more often believing someone was "good" when they weren't than believing someone was "bad" when they weren't.

 

[wbojb]

Wow, this thread is just too tempting. I would say in most cases, there is no such thing as being too nice. I will toss a little psychology/philosophy into the mix. If someone being nice to you is in some way offensive, it is more an indicator of some personal pain/insecurity on the part of the recipient that is being projected onto the nice person. It is the source of most cynicism. I am not suggesting that it is wrong to react in this manner. It is part of our human instinct to protect ourselves. Like others have said, if there is an alternate motive behind it, play time is over. But then, they were not being nice then were they.

 

[Musturd]

Stunted was once a Technical Support manager for a big ass software company

I'm just a simple bicycle mechanic

 

[swampman]

These opinions ...

low Be does have the hots for u ..
stunted software is ...the way to go to ....for expertise .

mustard my neighbors a bicycle mechanic as well ...humm ...

So being has its UPS and down ....i like to be genuine if that makes sence

"give onto others as you have them give to you "...if that's how its stated but we should get the picture