We're in deep talks in the staff room on how we want to move forward; this isn't just my sole decision just so everyone understands that.
I am very frustrated with this software developer though; and after reading through a few recent threads on the Xenforo board, it seems like a lot of the 3rd party developers are moving away from it, because the Xen developers are not properly supporting and updating their own product.
I don't want to stay with an abuser. We're classy broads.