I figured out, how I F'ed up. Have been migrating from hydro mindset, and still start plants in rockwool and 3.5 inch netpots with hydroton. Once some roots pop out, move them to coco, and water from the center, since it dries out quickly. Have very good results.
I did an experiment, and did not mark the plant. I filled netpot with coco, and watered like usual. I usually water a plant a little in the center after 2 days, even if it is still a little heavy. That is how I drowned this plant. Would be shocked if it survived.
Moved it to all hydroton tonight, and will hand water. All I want is pollen, which it was just starting to produce.
Thanks for all the help!!!!